The truth is… you can’t really get a lot done with strap on play without actual strap ons. And of course nobody wants to (or should even try) to leap from a pinky to a full on strap on. There has to be some middle ground. And thankfully [...]]]> Yup, that’s right… I am talking about toys.

The truth is… you can’t really get a lot done with strap on play without actual strap ons. And of course nobody wants to (or should even try) to leap from a pinky to a full on strap on. There has to be some middle ground. And thankfully there is a lot of it!

So how do you prep that sweet rosebud for some serious anal play? There are a variety of ways to prep yourself for strap on action.

The Household Method: This is by far the cheapest though in my estimation the most dangerous route of prepping that sweet ass. This is simply using household objects to increase your ability to take a strap on. This can start with a toothbrush, move up to a hairbrush… maybe a celery stalk until eventually you can get an english cucumber… a regular cucumber.. you get the idea. Each and every one of these methods includes tons and tons of LUBE but as you imagine because these objects are not made for this purpose you can easily hurt yourself or even worse… get objects stuck… which is embarrassing to say the least… and possibly dangerous.

The Butt Plug Method: The slowest but possibly the most effective way to prep your ass for deep and satisfying strap on play. This is just what it sounds like… using butt plugs. Some people use them for hours a day… moving up from smaller to larger butt plugs. And occasionally interspersing dildos for extra stretching.

The “Real Deal” Method: For those of you in a relationship with a patient cock… try the real deal. This is when you simply grin and bear it. By all means, get yourself nice and hot.. use lots of lube and stretch a bit with fingers first. But then… take the plunge. I highly suggest using the “spooning” position first as this is the least “pressure” you can put on the skin surrounding your ass. Eventually moving on to more advance positions. It also helps if you have a lot of different cocks to choose from… but for that dildos are perfect.

Use any or all of these methods and that hot ass of yours will be completely ready for my big strap on. Or you might just find that you enjoy the journey a whole lot more than you thought! So get out there and find what tickles your feather!

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I have been working with one client that *really* wanted to try strap on play but was mortified by the pain factor. And yes, there are plenty of things to be mortified about when it [...]]]> The truth is anal does not have to hurt, but it can. It really depends on your preference and the situation.

I have been working with one client that *really* wanted to try strap on play but was mortified by the pain factor. And yes, there are plenty of things to be mortified about when it comes to strap ons…pain being one of them.

The truth is, anal really shouldn’t hurt. Fantasy is fun and I am all for shoving my huge 9 inch strap on in your virgin ass, but for those of you truly considering strap on play – this is not the way it is intended.

Now, for those hardcore strap on enthusiasts this might be a wierd thing to hear a domme say. However, I am a sensual domme and have always towed the line that pleasure is pleasure and pain is pain. If you like pain we can do that – but the truth is we can do almost everything without it. Anal is one of those things.

There are many resources on the net if you are considering anal play. Lots of tips and tricks out there about diet and logical steps. I for one much more prefer the mental, aka mind fuck of strap on to the real thing.

For me strap on play is about a power struggle. You are giving all your power to me. You are laying at my feet and doing my bidding. As your domme I will protect you from harm, unless it is the pain that pleases me.

If you are contemplating strap on play in fantasy or real life, I would love to chat about it with you. We can do a few roleplays to flesh out what really gets you going.

If you are already a member of the strap on community and need a little rough play with a sensual domme, I am your girl! Don’t be confused by my sweetness! If it is your ass I want, I will take it. I will force you to your knees and make you suck my strap on until you gag. After that I will throw you over my couch and take that ass for all its worth.

Just like anything else I play with – strap on play can run the spectrum of sweet to nasty! Game on!

~Empress Holly~

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This is Empress Holly and I am excited about a whole new blog to tease you with. I actually have all sorts of new blogs popping up this week. This one of course about strap on play, another about GFE phonesex and another one for my special cuckolds out there. I do hope you [...]]]> Hey Puppets,

This is Empress Holly and I am excited about a whole new blog to tease you with. I actually have all sorts of new blogs popping up this week. This one of course about strap on play, another about GFE phonesex and another one for my special cuckolds out there. I do hope you subscribe to them (to the left) or atleast bookmark them. They won’t be updated as frequently as sensualteasing.com but they will be just as hot… if not hotter.

So let’s start of with why Strap Ons are so fun… it is rather obvious really. The power of a sexy women combined with the strength of a strap on. The domination complete as she plunges in you over and over. Oh yes, this is definitely a personal favorite of mine. With strap on play there is no doubt that you are mine. That I own you. I own each and every bit of you. I’m filling you up and you still can’t get enough.

Strap on training is a tough course to master, but I am sure any of you can do it. As a sensual domme I love teaching the tricks of strap on adoration. Moving up to bigger and bigger toys is always an accomplishment worthy of celebration.

I am so looking forward to sharing more with you about the strap on calls I get…and how I love to train all my puppets in the art of dildos, strap ons and butt plugs. Be sure to tell me on our next phonesex call if you want to be included on my new blog… it might lead to some special treat from yours truly

Kisses,

Empress Holly

For an erotic phone session with Empress Holly, call 800-601-6975 Must be 18+
Calls are $2.50 per minute with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to your credit card
http://ratemycall.com