Traditionally, this position is when you are on your back, with your legs up. It is, quite frankly, the way a bitch takes a strap on. You are in [...]]]> What’s holding you back? Are you afraid of giving yourself over completely? Do you want to miss out on the edge of fantasy?

What is Total Bitch Position

Traditionally, this position is when you are on your back, with your legs up. It is, quite frankly, the way a bitch takes a strap on. You are in the submissive/ missionary spot. A very untraditional place for a man… both metaphorically and in reality. Explore that side and eventually you will be asked to take the Total Bitch Position

What Total Bitch Position Means

Obviously like any other kinky sex thing – it can mean a variety of things. Since so much of our sexual behavior happens behind closed doors – people often come up with their own phrases or nuances. For me, the Total Bitch Position is more than just a sex position, it is a lifestyle. It is the undercurrent of a true sub. Knowing that you are safe and secure in your domme. With that safety and security in your pocket – you can release yourself from any fear and allow the domme total and complete control.

How to stay in Total Bitch Position

This too, is different for everyone. Some have the lifestyle of submission, others are not so fortunate. For many it is merely the mindset. The difference is that you take that mindset everywhere you go. Not to be a doormat, but a submissive. And oftentimes, only a sub to your specific dom. Others however take a different approach. Reach out to your partner and find the definition that works for you.

Where to go for Total Bitch Position Training

The question is where you can’t go. For a true sub, you can find a leader in anything or anyone. If you are looking for more structure consider seeking out the BDSM underworld of your neighborhood or get connected through various online kinky social networks. If you are a couple seeking definition – you can always call me or any other Mistress of LDW/Enchantrix. The information is out there – you just need to think about how you wish to receive it!

Kisses!

Holly

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I have been working with one client that *really* wanted to try strap on play but was mortified by the pain factor. And yes, there are plenty of things to be mortified about when it [...]]]> The truth is anal does not have to hurt, but it can. It really depends on your preference and the situation.

I have been working with one client that *really* wanted to try strap on play but was mortified by the pain factor. And yes, there are plenty of things to be mortified about when it comes to strap ons…pain being one of them.

The truth is, anal really shouldn’t hurt. Fantasy is fun and I am all for shoving my huge 9 inch strap on in your virgin ass, but for those of you truly considering strap on play – this is not the way it is intended.

Now, for those hardcore strap on enthusiasts this might be a wierd thing to hear a domme say. However, I am a sensual domme and have always towed the line that pleasure is pleasure and pain is pain. If you like pain we can do that – but the truth is we can do almost everything without it. Anal is one of those things.

There are many resources on the net if you are considering anal play. Lots of tips and tricks out there about diet and logical steps. I for one much more prefer the mental, aka mind fuck of strap on to the real thing.

For me strap on play is about a power struggle. You are giving all your power to me. You are laying at my feet and doing my bidding. As your domme I will protect you from harm, unless it is the pain that pleases me.

If you are contemplating strap on play in fantasy or real life, I would love to chat about it with you. We can do a few roleplays to flesh out what really gets you going.

If you are already a member of the strap on community and need a little rough play with a sensual domme, I am your girl! Don’t be confused by my sweetness! If it is your ass I want, I will take it. I will force you to your knees and make you suck my strap on until you gag. After that I will throw you over my couch and take that ass for all its worth.

Just like anything else I play with – strap on play can run the spectrum of sweet to nasty! Game on!

~Empress Holly~

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This is Empress Holly and I am excited about a whole new blog to tease you with. I actually have all sorts of new blogs popping up this week. This one of course about strap on play, another about GFE phonesex and another one for my special cuckolds out there. I do hope you [...]]]> Hey Puppets,

This is Empress Holly and I am excited about a whole new blog to tease you with. I actually have all sorts of new blogs popping up this week. This one of course about strap on play, another about GFE phonesex and another one for my special cuckolds out there. I do hope you subscribe to them (to the left) or atleast bookmark them. They won’t be updated as frequently as sensualteasing.com but they will be just as hot… if not hotter.

So let’s start of with why Strap Ons are so fun… it is rather obvious really. The power of a sexy women combined with the strength of a strap on. The domination complete as she plunges in you over and over. Oh yes, this is definitely a personal favorite of mine. With strap on play there is no doubt that you are mine. That I own you. I own each and every bit of you. I’m filling you up and you still can’t get enough.

Strap on training is a tough course to master, but I am sure any of you can do it. As a sensual domme I love teaching the tricks of strap on adoration. Moving up to bigger and bigger toys is always an accomplishment worthy of celebration.

I am so looking forward to sharing more with you about the strap on calls I get…and how I love to train all my puppets in the art of dildos, strap ons and butt plugs. Be sure to tell me on our next phonesex call if you want to be included on my new blog… it might lead to some special treat from yours truly

Kisses,

Empress Holly

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Calls are $2.50 per minute with a 10 minute minimum
Discreetly billed to your credit card
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