The truth is anal does not have to hurt, but it can. It really depends on your preference and the situation.
I have been working with one client that *really* wanted to try strap on play but was mortified by the pain factor. And yes, there are plenty of things to be mortified about when it comes to strap ons…pain being one of them.
The truth is, anal really shouldn’t hurt. Fantasy is fun and I am all for shoving my huge 9 inch strap on in your virgin ass, but for those of you truly considering strap on play – this is not the way it is intended.
Now, for those hardcore strap on enthusiasts this might be a wierd thing to hear a domme say. However, I am a sensual domme and have always towed the line that pleasure is pleasure and pain is pain. If you like pain we can do that – but the truth is we can do almost everything without it. Anal is one of those t
hings.
There are many resources on the net if you are considering anal play. Lots of tips and tricks out there about diet and logical steps. I for one much more prefer the mental, aka mind fuck of strap on to the real thing.
For me strap on play is about a power struggle. You are giving all your power to me. You are laying at my feet and doing my bidding. As your domme I will protect you from harm, unless it is the pain that pleases me.
If you are contemplating strap on play in fantasy or real life, I would love to chat about it with you. We can do a few roleplays to flesh out what really gets you going.
If you are already a member of the strap on community and need a little rough play with a sensual domme, I am your girl! Don’t be confused by my sweetness! If it is your ass I want, I will take it. I will force you to your knees and make you suck my strap on until you gag. After that I will throw you over my couch and take that ass for all its worth.
Just like anything else I play with – strap on play can run the spectrum of sweet to nasty! Game on!
~Empress Holly~
For an erotic phone session with Empress Holly, 800-601-6975
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